ADDRESSING THE HATE COMMENTS
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28 ก.ย. 2022
I feel like it all started when you were talking about your mental health and he basically said you have no reason to be sad/ depressed because the life you have- which I feel like no guy really can understand what we go through after having a baby. I love you both and I agree people will judge your relationship because your life is on the internet for everyone to see. No one knows what happens behind closed doors. Ignore the hate. It’s impossible to be perfect and make everyone happy. Congrats on all your achievements Alo! You been through so much and deserve nothing but the best for you and your little family ❤️
What we think doesn’t matter the fact that you guys can grow without each other, and still grow even more together should only male people more aware of how far you can go when you have someone that loves and supports you like you guys do❤
I love that your speaking up and having your significant other's back, but remember you don't have to explain yourself. You're damned if you do and you're damed if you don't. Always. Everyone will always have their own opinion and you can't change that and you can't please everyone. You don't owe anyone explanations. I get you guys are on social media but just let people talk. I'm proud of you guys and congratulations on your house!
I’m so glad your talking about this cause I didn’t understand why people think that you would ever be with someone who would not treat you like a queen you are and Benny is such a genuine and good person I mean you can definitely see it so good for you girl !
this video actually made me so sad bc people just don’t wanna see you and benny both growing and thriving, can’t wait to see what the future holds your beautiful family 🤍🤍🤍
As a girl myself who struggles with mental health daily. WHEN YOU SAID “you just don’t get it” it shouldn’t open any doors for people to start hate comments. I completely understand you. My BF and I have a 18 month old, we just bought a house, I am a stay at home mom, he works full time. And I try to explain to him my mental health issues and sometimes it’s not that I don’t trust him but I just don’t want to bring it up to him because even myself, I think, why do I feel this way if I’m so blessed. No matter how we say it, NO ONE WILL EVER GET IT. Only a person who struggles with it will understand. & that is not Bennys fault. As u said, he’s stronger minded and so is my BF. he’s there for me, but his words to make me feel better will always be “look at what we have, a house, health, a baby” because he wants me to see the positive side. Benny is just trying to help and seeing that video of u two before all this hate I completely understood you both bc AGAIN, this is very very normal in a relationship where one struggles with mental health. PPL on social media think it’s ok to judge when I am sure their lives are miserable but will never ever show that bc it’s easier to say “oh Benny needs to be more supportive, mean while they are still single for a reason themselves”
i’ve noticed it getting bad.. what people don’t understand is that you guys get to choose what you want to show us. we will never know what goes on behind closed doors. Keep your head up bb! your REAL supporters got you
Haters will always hate. Don’t stress out about it girl. They will always try to get to you no matter what. I’m so proud of you for being so strong to even show us this side of you. Your real supports will always be here and stand with you.
Attagirl Alondra! Sometimes people need to be reminded how hard it is to have a career on Social Media. Sometimes people's actions and comments are stemmed from what they are going through as well. And sometimes there are those that get paid to talk sh!+ on Social Media. You, Benny, and the baby are a beautiful family. Thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing your lives with the THvid community and thank you for inspiring not only the Hispanic/Latin community, but other communities in striving for their own goals. Much love to you and the family 😘🥰 🤗😍🤩😊
😭Thank you Alondra for defending your partner !! I’m glad your sticking up for your man n putting people in their place girl !! You keep enjoying yalls blessing n keep supporting your man through this hard time for him 😢 I know how close Benny is to his family n losing a family member is never easy to begin with 🥺
I watch Benny all the time. You have to be blind not to see what a great Dad he is. I wonder where you are at times during his videos. I wonder if you are not feeling well. You are so lucky to have Benny by your side. I suffered with post partum depression, my ex husband would just leave and go out with his friends. I see Benny trying to take you out, on little vacations. Trying to lessen the load on you, to boost you up. I'm happy you guys have each other. Love your family 🥰💝 Congratulations on everything, you guys are accomplished so much. Ignore the trolls, misery loves company. You are doing great, and trust me the dark cloud is temporary, one day you will have nothing but sunshine 💛🙏🙌
Love the fact that you stepped in to protect your man when you know he’s going through it right now in his personal life. Props to you Alo❤
Sending you 2 lots of love❤ I’ve been a fan on Benny’s for a long time! It’s crazy to see how people are so quick to judge off of a 15min video you guys put out. Everyone’s love language is different and I can tell Benny is a giver/provider he wants the best for you and Legend. Just because he’s not all up on you or putting on this happy happy face all the time doesn’t mean he doesn’t love or care for you. I personally love how you guys do things separately to be honest. Because you guys are both growing, encouraging and helping each other. Love y’all ❤
Nah fr.... im so sorry that you guys are going through this. A lot of people take so much shit out of context and really need to mind their own. You guys are the only one who knows what you guys are going through and people just feed of off these kind of responses. You guys are fine and owe no one an explanation to what you guys are doing. Keep going girl you're doing good and always put yourself and your beautiful family's health and mental health first. Love you guys <3
It’s so crazy this has to be said even. But You go girl ❤. It’s 2022, having separate investments , accounts etc is normal!! The fact you guys support each other on your individual goals and accomplishments is goals. Wishing your family the best !! 🎉
I truly admire your courage to speak up and stand up for yourself, your partner and your family together. This vulnerability is empowerment. I respect you saying how you feel, how the comments make you feel and asking for them to please stop for both you and Benny, this is the epitome of effective communication. Proud of you Alondra! 🥰
That is so sad. I’ve watched you for years way before Benni and you got together, you definitely have grown so much! People don’t get he’s your back bone and he’s helped you so much! I wish you guys the best and hope all those bad vibes go away!!! Love you guys ❤
Benny is such a sweetheart & has treated Alondra so good since day one.
I’m sorry you and Benny had to go through this..your both great people nobody knows your relationship like you do. Glad that you made this video addressing it 👏🏼 People can be so cruel sometimes anyhow
People forget that 20 minutes of a video is nothing compared to 24 hours that a day has!! Love you both❤️
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